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The Pursuit of Manliness

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Enjoyed being on the Pursuit of Manliness Podcast with Jarrett Samuels!!

On today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Paul Pettit, a multi-published author and Dallas Theological Seminary teacher to discuss his latest book, "A Courageous Identity: Accepting the Call of Christ-Centered Masculinity."

What does it really mean to be a man of faith? It’s not about being perfect. It’s about becoming increasingly effective in the daily roles of husband, dad, friend, and worker. 

In a culture that often distorts masculinity, Paul points men back to God’s original design, reminding them that becoming a godly man is not about perfection but about daily progress, brotherhood, and surrendering to God’s shaping hand. His new book, A Courageous Identity, is a guide for men who want to grow in faith, maturity, and purpose as they walk shoulder to shoulder with others. He encourages men to reject passivity, embrace responsibility, and live with courage, offering a roadmap for those seeking purpose and impact.

To learn more visit: https://www.whitakerhouse.com/authors/paul-pettit/

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 The Wisdom Experience Brings 

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I had a seminary professor, Dr. Howard Hendricks, who was very clear about the idea of experience. He warned us to be cautious of teachers who boast about having taught for forty years. “Did they really teach for forty years, or did they just teach for just one year and repeat the same old notes and stories every year for forty years?” He told us that to teach well, we need to keep studying, praying, growing, and learning. We couldn’t rely on the same old worn-out notes and yellowed lesson plans year after year and then brag about our vast experience.

This is not only true for professors. The same is true for us. No matter our age God is continually molding us and shaping us into the man He wants you to become.

Take, for example, men and boys. A boy may be sixteen years old yet ... Go here: https://newcommandment.org/the-wisdom-experience-brings.html click here

Dr. Paul Pettit

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What is the world's view of masculinity?

 What is the world's view of masculinity? 

The original word for “world” here implies being influenced by current thoughts and pursuits rather than the eternal reign of Jesus Christ. Not this world but the next world. We should avoid adopting our culture’s ideas of masculinity and instead...

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Adapted from: A Courageous Identity: Accepting the Call of Christ-Centered Masculinity (Whitaker House) Available now on Amazon.com

Check out Dr. Paul Pettit’s latest book, “A Courageous Identity: Accepting the Call of Christ-Centered Masculinity.” https://tinyurl.com/yc4dds3x

 

Hey, guys: Like to fish? Then you will love this post, and learn an important lesson about marriage and family as you read it.   Catch and Release This month's featured men's team ministry is Topeka Bible Church in Topeka, Kansas. Check out Dr. Paul Pettit’s latest book, set to release on June 9th, 2026: https://tinyurl.com/yc4dds3x

The Lengths Some Men Will Go To!

 Would you break your leg to feel better about yourself? 

The Lengths Men Will Go To!

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Key Scripture: “Can any of you add a single cubit to his height by worrying?” (Matthew 6:27).

In this fascinating Scripture passage, Jesus highlights that human effort and anxiety cannot overcome physical limitations. This verse is part of the Sermon on the Mount, teaching that God cares for human needs (such as food and clothing), rendering anxious worry useless.

However, this has not stopped some men from attempting to add cubits to their height. When we discuss the topic of identity, or how we see ourselves and what we value as most important in our lives, it is critical to remember that for the believer, identity must be grounded in the person and work of Jesus Christ. Basing your identity on any thing or any person other than Jesus Christ is to build your life on quicksand.

Physical exercise is important. All of us should be involved in a little more temple upkeep. Dressing well and exercising good grooming habits is also important. We don’t want to needlessly offend. However, the Scriptures also remind us: “But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)

We can lift weights, run, eat well, and transform our bodies in many ways. But Jesus told us worry cannot add to our height. However, this has not stopped some men from attempting to add cubits to their height.

Are you familiar with leg-lengthening surgery? Limb lengthening is a surgical procedure that increases height by 2 to 6 inches by breaking the femur (thigh) or tibia (shin) bones. An internal magnetic device or external fixator is inserted to gradually pull the bone segments apart, allowing new bone to fill the gap over 6–9 months. To read the rest of this article, click here: https://newcommandment.org/the-lengths-men-will-go-to/

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Are You Comfortable with Authority?

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Key Scripture: “Jesus called them together and said, ‘You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Matthew 20:25–28)

Read post here: https://newcommandment.org/are-you-comfortable-with-authority/

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The Importance of Having a Game Plan

 

The Importance of a Game Plan

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Key Scripture: Colossians 2:6-7: “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to walk in him, being rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, and overflowing with gratitude.”

 

Can you imagine a college or professional sports team going into a game without a plan? You will likely make halftime adjustments, but without a game plan, you’re playing with fire. The saying comes to mind, “If you don’t care where you are going, any road will take you there!”” Throughout these monthly articles, I’ve described the journey, the path, the road to becoming a Christ-centered, mature man. We need to follow Jesus, our leader. We need to trust and rely on the Holy Spirit as our strength and shield. We never walk alone. We need other brothers with us on the trail. We must have the Scriptures as our trustworthy map. And we need a plan. His words are ... read rest of post here

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Three Male Friendships Christian Men Need in Their Life

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Scripture: 2 Timothy 2:2 “And the things that you have heard from me among many witnesses, commit these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.”

One of the best ways to grow as a Christian man in our walk with the Lord is to develop strategic friendships with other godly men. Here are three ways we can think of these strategic male friendships. See: https://newcommandment.org/three-male-friendships-christian-men-need-in-their-life/ Click here to read the rest of this article ... 

A Courageous Identity

 How is following Jesus similar to being a Dallas Cowboys fan? #ACourageousIdentity

You may be wondering what we mean by courageous identity. One way to grasp the idea of identity is by describing the life of a sports fan. Since I live in Dallas, Texas, let’s focus on a dedicated Dallas Cowboys supporter. What does it mean for someone to take on or embrace the identity of a Dallas Cowboys fan? At the very least, he would learn about the team, get to know the players, watch the games, and cheer for the team. As the season goes on... (Read rest of article here : https://newcommandment.org/a-courageous-identity/ )

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Going Public as a Born-Again Christian

 

https://newcommandment.org/8-questions-non-christians-have-asked-me-and-may-ask-you/

#transitioning #comingout

by Dr. Paul Pettit

“Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” 1 Peter 3:15

From time to time, I have had the opportunity to speak and train in various non-Christian venues because it is essential for us to educate non-Christians about who we are. I receive many comments and questions in those settings, and unless I have specified that a particular topic is off-limits (I never do), I expect and am happy to answer any question that comes my way. In that situation, as the old cliché goes, there are no stupid questions.

So here are 8 questions non-Christians have asked me…and may ask you. 

https://newcommandment.org/8-questions-non-christians-have-asked-me-and-may-ask-you/

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Loneliness among Christian Men

Dr. Paul Pettit discusses the epidemic of loneliness among Christian men and offers suggestions on how they can address it. Read the article here

https://newcommandment.org/the-incredible-danger-of-men-experiencing-isolated-individualism/

Dr. Paul Pettit serves as Director of Career Services at Dallas Theological Seminary and teaches in the departments of Spiritual Formation, Leadership, and Pastoral Ministries. Dr. Pettit is also the founder of Dynamic Dads. Dynamic Dads is a non-profit organization dedicated to encouraging fathers everywhere in their demanding yet highly rewarding role of leading their family.

Where was God during the Kerrville, Texas floods? #KerrvilleFloods

God is great! God is good! Are both of these theological truths true ... at the same time? 

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Where was God during the Kerrville, Texas floods?  

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On July 4th, 2025, flood waters swept through the Guadalupe River in and around Kerrville, Texas. As of this writing, there are more than 100 reported dead and still more than 100 unaccounted for. Where was God during this tragedy?

Children learn a simple prayer often quoted before mealtime:

“God is great, God is good. God, we thank you, for this food…”

These two profound truths summarize most of the Scriptures. If one believes in God at all one must believe he is great. Theologians refer to the greatness of God as omnipotence. But another truth must be held in tension. God is also good. God is kind, loving, benevolent. When a tragedy such as a school shooting, tornado, or senseless crime occurs we often question the goodness of God. Why would a ... (read the rest of the article here)

https://newcommandment.org/where-was-god-during-the-kerrville-texas-floods/

 

The Importance of Forgiving Your Father

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

Across the country, this weekend, dads will open presents containing socks, ties, or gift cards for Father’s Day. Others will enjoy grilling outdoors or attending a sporting event. It is normally a time of warm and genuine gratitude for dads who did their best. But for others, it is a sad weekend remembering the real harm their own father inflicted on their family.

A bell curve for dads

In my role as a seminary professor who teaches a course on ... read the rest of the article here

A mentoring strategy of multiplication vs. a mentoring strategy of addition

 Do you practice a mentoring strategy of multiplication or a mentoring strategy of addition?

2 Timothy 2:2 “The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.” (NASB)

For most of my Christian life, I have heard about, but rarely witnessed, the discipleship process called multiplication. Allow me to explain. Excited Christian leaders stand before a group of new believers and explain, “I want each of you to go out and start a Bible study with four or five other men.” So far … so good. “Then, I want you to emphasize that each one of them should also have in mind the idea of launching their own group.” You see a pattern here? “Then, each of those new members should, at the start, know that they will also be starting their own discipleship group and mentoring others!”

Probably, you are thinking about multi-level marketing or some nefarious Ponzi scheme for making money. However, this is the biblical, Jesus-way for making disciples. However, rarely have I seen this ... 

Read the rest here: https://newcommandment.org/multiplication-discipleship-vs-addition-discipleship/

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Porn & Prostitution: A Dangerous Landmine for Men

Pornography & Prostitution

A Dangerous Land Mine for Men

by Dr. Paul Pettit

Key Scripture Passage: Job 31:1 (New Living Translation) “I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman.”

Men’s ministries should become a safe place for men who are struggling with addiction to pornography. Pornography addiction should not be the only issue that a men’s ministry addresses … but the crisis should not be ignored.

Read article here:  

https://newcommandment.org/pornography-a-dangerous-land-mine-for-men/

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Too much screen time?

 

Screen time has replaced outdoor time for many men ... what are the results? ... Read my thoughts here #DynamicDads www.dynamicdads.com

https://www.amazon.com/author/paulpettit

David & Bathsheba: A tragic reminder about "finishing well" ...

 The story of David & Bathsheba reminds us about finishing well ...

Read here: https://newcommandment.org/finishing-well/

The Legacy of Luigi Mangione

 Two different Valedictorians ... their lives took different paths. One became a C.E.O ... the other became a shooter ... Read about them here ... #freewill #wisdom #legacy

https://newcommandment.org/a-tale-of-two-valedictorians-the-shooter-and-the-c-e-o/

One Body, One Spirit interview and discussion (You Tube)

From Dr. Paul Weaver: It was great to have Mr. Jason Epps and Dr. Paul Pettit on the Bible and Theology Matters podcast to discuss their recently released book - One Body, One Soul. We discuss the topic of disability and community within the church - focusing on the challenges faced by individuals with disabilities (both physical and social). You can watch on the YouTube link below or on your favorite podcast platform. 

Watch here:  https://www.youtube.com/@BibleandTheologyMatters